This duality of who she is and who she becomes sits at the heart of her presence. It makes her work feel less like a static career and more like an ongoing act of shapeshifting.

New York has been both her backdrop and the place that shaped her. When she first arrived, she wandered through every borough, testing which corner of the city reflected who she was becoming. “I toured every borough to see which neighborhood aligned most with my personal style and who I was at the time,” she recalls. She eventually landed on the Lower East Side, a neighborhood she says defined her early years and helped shape her into the person she is today. But Amelia is not easily defined. She lives in transition, in the in-between spaces of identity. Ask her what excites her most, and her answers hover somewhere between intimacy and expansiveness: “What excites me most is being with the people that I love, being in nature, and creating in any way that I can.” For someone so publicly present, her true sanctuary is private, almost hidden. Her favorite place to disappear isn’t a late-night spot or an exclusive spa, it’s simply her home. “I’m a real homebody,” she says. “I try to be home any moment that I get. I’m grateful to have a sanctuary where I can unwind and be with my loved ones.”

That tension between the seen and unseen, the public and private, is what makes Amelia such a compelling figure. In her own words, modeling is about shifting into different identities, a practice that blurs the boundary between art and commerce, between authenticity and invention. “I prefer making art more than art mixed with commerce,” she explains, “but the two definitely go hand in hand, and I’m so grateful for the days I get to produce commerce.” She moves fluidly between both worlds, never fully belonging to either.

Her recent work with Steven Meisel captures this perfectly. The Alo campaign, surreal in its execution, became a defining moment for her. “Steven is unbelievably talented and working with him was unlike anything I’ve ever done,” she reflects. “This campaign was such a different move for him, and for the brand, and it was truly an honor to be a part of that project.” That collaboration, alongside Meisel’s shoot for Zara’s 50th anniversary, marked the highlights of her year so far, a merging of vision and self that pulled her into new creative territory.

In today’s hyper-online culture, where images move faster than they can be digested, Amelia embodies something slower, more elusive. She admits to being nostalgic for the past. “Innately I’m extremely nostalgic of the 90s,” she says, “but I’m also really excited to see how this generation contributes to art through a modern lens. There’s a lot of opportunity which can be a bit daunting; but it’s so exciting to see what new art looks like and seeing new stories come to life.” There’s a quiet ambivalence in her perspective: excitement for the stories to be told, paired with a longing for what has already slipped away. That ambivalence, however, is part of her allure. She is never fixed, never easily labeled, always in motion.

Amelia Gray is, in many ways, a paradox. She is everywhere and nowhere, both fully herself and endlessly becoming. As she puts it, “There are many versions that the world has not seen. I’m constantly evolving and trying to understand what the next best thing for me is, and I think right now I’m in a transitional period of that.” Who exactly Amelia is becoming is not for us to answer, but for us to simply appreciate as she continues to shapeshift into larger versions of herself.